Sunday, March 25, 2012

How To Lose It and Keep It Off!

People do the craziest things to lose weight.  Believe me, I know. We will take away all the normal food out of our lives, and then it's tremendous. You can have water, grapefruit, all the lettuce can eat, lots of celery, and watery soup. You can lose weight that way, but you know what? Take it from an old diet expert here, you can't keep it lost. You just can't live that way. You just can't always eat just grapefruit and unlimited lettuce. You have to find some new foods that you can eat and enjoy for the rest of your life. Otherwise you violate the key principle: If you're going to take away something you enjoy, you had better put something good in its' place if you want the change to last. Actually that applies to spiritual change too.

In 2 Timothy 2:22, Paul is writing to young men, and he's talking about a subject that would have to do with young men. He talks about the "evil desires of youth." He says, "Look, I know especially when you're young that one of the challenges spiritually is controlling your glands, and your sexuality, and your feelings toward the opposite sex." And he talks about something you should lose. You could almost call it losing spiritual weight. Except here it's losing a bad habit.

He says, "Run away from infantile indulgence." [The Message]  Okay, that's the diet plan; that's the fattening things you've got to lose. But I'm glad he doesn't leave it there, because he gives you something new to put in its place. He says, Run away from infantile indulgence. Run after ...." Okay, it's not just running from things. There's something you need to chase. "....Run after mature righteousness—faith, love, peace—joining those who are in honest and serious prayer before God."


I'm afraid that a lot of Christians would just stop with the negative - with the prohibition. "Flee youthful lusts, my son."  And he's right when he says that, and we're right to have those negatives. Don't cheapen sex, don't fill yourself up with destructive music, or websites, or worldly amusements.  Don't go out with unbelievers, don't read magazines that have garbage values, and don't watch junk TV.

But notice that Paul doesn't stop with a "don't." He says, "Go chasing..." And then he says, "...pursue some good stuff to do. Go after faith." Well, that means adventures that can stretch you and your faith in God. He says, "Go after love." In other words, be pursuing bridges to other people; more ways to put them first. He also says, "Be a peacemaker between other people."  He gives one don't and four do's. That's a spiritual diet that can have lasting 
affects. Lasting results because you've got many more things you are doing than things you stopped doing.

Jesus talked about a man who swept the house and got rid of an evil spirit, but he didn't have anything in the house after the spirit was gone. And seven spirits worse came back because there was a vacuum. See, I don't think we can just be against things; we've got to be for a lot more things. We've got to invest in alternatives to the wrong thing.

We should major on healthy friendships, invest in those, encourage those, spend money for our kids to have good input and fun family times without regrets, and healthy recreation to develop their abilities. Go on spiritual missions together in your neighborhood or somewhere else in the world.

I think as Christians we should be known for being too busy doing good things to miss the things we're not doing. Let's be known not for what we're against, but for the great things we're for.



Have a great week, and enjoy all the benefits of the Lord!

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Change

I’m going to change.  More than that, God is going to help me change.  He is growing me and making me a better ambassador for Him. My past ended a minute ago and I’m looking ahead to new beginnings and a new hope in all God is.
 
I’m going to be kinder and less critical.  I’m going to be less vocal and listen more.  I’m going to talk like Jesus to every single person I meet.  

I’m going to be more joyful - knowing He is in control - and not operate so much on emotions and circumstances.  I’m going to claim God’s blessing in my life and let Him work a miracle in me.
 
I’m going to smile and see Jesus in every face I meet. 
 
I’m going to stop and think before I open my mouth in order to ensure my words are uplifting, loving, compassionate and forgiving. 

I’m going to share and give to those in need.  I’m going to find joy in my life regardless of what happens or why.
 
I’m going to try harder to understand nothing is impossible for those who believe God is all He promises.  I’m going to spend more time with those I love and to keep my promises. 
 
I’m going to remember and practice prayer.  It is, after all, my chosen time to spend time with my Savior and Father.  I’m going to pray for the leaders of this nation despite disagreeing with them. I cannot change anything, but God can change everything.

I’m going to be more tolerant, more open-minded and more understanding.  I’m going to remember all things are possible through God who loves me.
 
I’m going to sit quietly and listen when others need a shoulder to lean on.  I want to be supportive, sympathetic and encouraging to the cross others carry and not be so critical and judgmental.  I’m going to try and grasp that I’m never too old to learn something new and remember that God works in unusual and strange ways.  I’m going to be receptive and approachable and try to remember that we are all works in progress.
 
I’m going to be more forgiving and hopefully, with God’s help, I can put it all behind me and learn from every single thing that happens.  I’m going to remember I’m not perfect but through God I can do all things.
 
I’m going to change.  Thank goodness God considers me a work in progress.  I know I have a ways to go but God considers me valuable and wants me to meet my potential.  He sees value in me and is willing to spend time on me and with me.  His commitment to me is 100% and I’m placing all my hope on that.
 
Remember God don’t make junk and He is helping me change. He’ll help you change, too ... if you will let him.

Have a great day!!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Plain Brown Wrapper

Maybe some of you are wondering what happened to me since it's been so long since I posted.  I really didn't fall off the face of the earth.  My schedule has just exploded, and I have found myself pulled in more directions than I thought possible.  Going forward I am going to try to keep posting at least once weekly.  If for whatever reason you wish to be unsubscribed from this blog, please let me know via email.

Until then ... here's a reprint of something that always touches my heart.

The song service is finished. The sermon begins. During the first three sentences, expectant faces look toward the preacher. 

A single mother sighs, praying her children will let her make it through the sermon, maybe even listen. An older man in failing health turns up his hearing aid. Frustrated and angry with diminishing strength and energy, he searches to make sense of his losses. A high school sophomore listens with an MTV-conditioned attention span. She is not trained to listen long. A successful business person caught in the depths of depression hopes for an alternative to suicide. 

A Bible class teacher dealing with major failure clings to faith by a fingernail. A married couple, sitting together in the pew but hardly speaking at home, hopes for renewal of lost affection. A frustrated parent of an angry teen looks for confidence. A widow's eyes fill with tears as her hand touches the empty seat beside her. A cancer patient needs a reason to suffer through another chemo session. The mate is desperate for strength to persevere. 

A contractor, competing with kickbacks and cheats, wonders if his ethics are antiquated. A nurse, exhausted from a twelve-hour-pressure- filled shift, hopes for renewal. A lonely soul hopes for connection with others. New Christians listen to build faith.  Long-time members hope for revival from spiritual lethargy. 

Debaters want a convincing argument. Condemners want a reason to feel superior. Tired church volunteers long for a boost.  Frazzled church workers need a shot in the arm.  Elders need power to persevere through the pressure.  Deacons need to be uplifted. 

The confused seek wisdom. The guilty seek forgiveness. The sad seek help. The mad seek release. The glad seek rejoicing. 

The preachers stands. 

For three sentences everyone listens intently, wondering, "Is there a word from God for me today?" 

Who dares to rise to preach in the face of such need? Who can meet such a multiplicity of expectations? 

God can. Only God can. 

God speaks through the preacher's faltering words, stiff outlines, and overused illustrations. God speaks through his words, his tears, his personality, his humor, his gestures, his spirit. God uses unworthy vessels to anoint hearts, persuade minds, lift spirits, comfort pain, and enlighten understanding. 

The power in preaching is not the preacher. It is God. God speaking through a man gives a beautiful gift - in a plain brown wrapper. 

God has a word for you. Shhhhh. Listen.